Save some of these questions for after you have known your partner, if they are really necessary.
As much as communication is important in a relationship, find a way to communicate in a civil manner.
Do not pretend to be someone or something that you are not, even if this thing is what the other person really likes.If this thing that you may try to be is the reason of the relationship, then there is no point of having the relationship at all. If you go on a date, always offer to foot the bill or split it.Find a balance to avoid sounding like you are constantly whining about everything. Be civil and avoid things that could send other signals. If you have a problem about something, talk about it with your partner without causing too much drama especially in public.It could sound negative and put off the other person. Men especially are not mind readers; they do not like making drama out of life.There is nothing more unattractive than dating a chain smoker or a drinker. It could lead to violence which can cause problems in the relationship.
If your partner does not like the cigarette smell as well, it could lead to a problem.
Men tend to be cautious of women who spend a lot of money and expect to be treated like princesses. Once one person notices that they tend to spend more money on you, it could raise a problem.
If you cannot afford the expensive outings, find cheaper ones that will enable you to have a good time too.
If you have a rule you follow before you get into a courtship, you do not have to let the other person know.
It could make them lose interest or think that you are crazy.
Most people can tolerate clingy people in the later stages of relationships.