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Make sure you’re well prepared for your first date – here’s what you need to know: Many gay mature singles find themselves online dating in an attempt to forget about a past love, but our advice is to heal your old wounds first.
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There are many types of gay mature relationships, so when filling out your online dating profile it always helps to be as specific as possible!
Share what you are looking for in a partner, and what sort of relationship you are interested in (marriage, long-term, friendship….) This will ensure that you don’t waste time dating people who won’t ultimately make you happy in the long-run.
Maybe you just stopped believing in the kind of naive love that you can only trust when you're young. Embrace your new reality For every 20-something entering the gay dating scene full of wide-eyed wonder, there's a 50-something (or a 60-, 70- or older-something) man back on the market after a relationship ends. Your next romantic partner will benefit from all of that, and from your passions for the life that's in front of you. Give up trying to be perfect, too, especially if that's a code word for "young." Yes, it's important to take care of your body and your health, but no need to obsess.
But what about the deeper, more mature love that allows for the wide spectrum of experience and truth? One is learning the rules; the other has "been there, dated that" and wonders, "Now what? Instead of trying to be 25 again, get comfortable in your skin. That way, when someone touches you, they'll really feel you, and not a bundle of self-critical tension.
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Whether you're single again after the end of a long-term relationship or you've been around the block a few times still on the hunt for Mr. These strategies can help you develop your inner explorer to make dating after 50 a little less daunting: 1.
Confront your fears You're never too old to find love, but that's not a message gay men hear very often. After years of "working on ourselves" and fighting social prejudice to gain self-esteem, many of us struggle to keep it. The gay community's — OK, let's get real, mostly the gay male community's — ageism. Who'd want you when there's some 30-year-old hottie turning everyone's heads at the gym? Focus instead on being your best self, no matter what your age.
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"Within the gay community, negative stereotypes reinforce the belief that gay relationships are based solely on physical attraction, and that once youth starts to fade, we are unlikely to have any real or lasting relationships," says Rik Isensee, author of Are You Ready? And remember that the most important characteristics — loyalty, humor, intelligence and compassion — are ageless.